James Mote Obituary – Yucaipa, California Mourns the Heartbreaking Loss of a Cherished Father, Partner, and Friend
Yucaipa, CA – It is with immense sorrow and heavy hearts that we announce the tragic passing of James Mote, a devoted father, loving partner, cherished grandfather, and dear friend, who lost his life in a car accident on May 3rd, 2025. His sudden and devastating loss has rippled through the Yucaipa community and beyond, leaving behind a deep sense of grief and disbelief among those who were fortunate to know and love him.
James was more than a man—he was a presence, a force of goodness and compassion, someone who made life feel fuller just by being part of it. He is survived by his beloved partner Haley, and his three sons James, Christian, and Mason, who were not just his pride and joy, but the very purpose of his life. Every decision James made, every sacrifice he undertook, was with his boys in mind. He was a hands-on dad who believed in showing up, not just in grand moments but in the everyday ones that truly matter. Whether he was cheering from the sidelines, giving advice, or sharing a quiet moment with his sons, James was their unwavering foundation.
To his children, James wasn’t just a father—he was their hero. He modeled integrity, strength, and kindness, shaping their lives with both quiet consistency and boundless love. He was deeply committed to raising good men, and his influence will undoubtedly continue to guide them as they move forward in life without him.
As a partner, James and Haley shared a deep and abiding love—one that was rooted in mutual respect, laughter, and an unshakable sense of companionship. They built a life rich with dreams, shared values, and plans for a future filled with family and happiness. Their bond was one of soulmates, and Haley was at the very center of James’s world.
James’s recent transition into grandfatherhood brought a new layer of joy and purpose to his life. His granddaughter lit up his world in a way that only a new generation can, and he embraced this new role with open arms and a full heart. The love he poured into his children was already beginning to be passed on to the next generation.
James was well known for his infectious laugh, quick wit, and ability to bring levity to even the darkest days. He had an effortless way of making people feel at ease. His humor was never cruel; it was the kind that lifted spirits and made people feel seen. But beyond the laughter, James was deeply empathetic—a sensitive and perceptive soul who carried the weight of those he cared for. He noticed the quiet struggles, offered a shoulder to lean on, and never hesitated to reach out with compassion.
To his friends, James was the rock—the one who could always be counted on. Whether it was helping someone move, lending an ear during tough times, or celebrating life’s victories, James was there. He was reliable, kind, and real—the kind of man whose friendship was both rare and invaluable.
He was also a man who dreamed big, constantly thinking about how to build a better life for his loved ones. Full of plans, ambitions, and ideas, James was never stagnant. He was always moving forward with optimism, believing that better days were always possible. His legacy will live on not only in the memories of those he touched, but in the dreams he passed on to his children and the love he infused into every part of his life.
As Yucaipa and the surrounding community come together to mourn this profound loss, what stands out most is James’s legacy of love—his love for his sons, his love for Haley, his love for his family, and his love for life. His absence leaves a painful void, but the impact of his spirit will endure for generations to come.
Memorial service arrangements are currently being planned and will be announced soon. In the meantime, friends, family, and community members are encouraged to share their memories, stories, and photographs to honor the extraordinary life James lived. His journey on this earth may have ended too soon, but the light he left behind will never dim.
James Mote’s life was a testament to love, resilience, and presence—and it is in those values that his memory will forever be kept alive.