In Loving Memory of Shannon Lonergan, 32, of Virginia Beach, VA — A Tragic Loss in a Domestic Violence Incident That Leaves a Community Grieving and Two Children Without Their Mother
VIRGINIA BEACH, VA — The evening of April 30, 2025, ended in unimaginable tragedy when 32-year-old Shannon Lonergan lost her life in what authorities have confirmed was a domestic violence incident in Virginia Beach. A mother of two and a beloved member of her community, Shannon’s untimely death has shaken the coastal city to its core and drawn renewed attention to the urgent crisis of domestic violence.
Shannon was found unresponsive inside her home after a welfare check was requested by concerned family members and friends who had not heard from her. Emergency services arrived at the residence, where they tragically confirmed Shannon’s death. The Virginia Beach Police Department has since launched a comprehensive investigation into the incident, coordinating with state and local agencies to piece together the events leading up to the tragedy.
Authorities have indicated that a suspect is in custody and that the case is being investigated as a homicide rooted in domestic violence. As the criminal process unfolds, the family and friends of Shannon are left to grapple with overwhelming grief and the haunting question of how such a bright, loving life could be extinguished so suddenly and senselessly.
Shannon Lonergan was a devoted mother, daughter, sister, and friend. Known for her radiant smile, selflessness, and fierce dedication to her children, she had an infectious energy that could uplift any room. Those closest to her describe her as a source of strength, love, and laughter—a woman who loved unconditionally and lived to support others, especially her two young children, now left without their mother.
“She was a beautiful soul who always put her kids first,” said a close family friend. “Shannon didn’t deserve this. She was trying to build a better life for her and her babies. We are devastated.”
The ripple effects of this tragedy have moved beyond Shannon’s immediate family, stirring a wave of sorrow and solidarity across Virginia Beach. Community members have begun organizing vigils and support drives to help the Lonergan family with funeral expenses and provide ongoing care for the children who are now facing life without their mother.
A memorial candlelight vigil is scheduled to be held at Mount Trashmore Park later this week, where friends, neighbors, and domestic violence awareness advocates will gather to honor Shannon’s life and call attention to the hidden toll of domestic abuse. Attendees will share stories, offer prayers, and recommit to the work of supporting survivors and preventing future tragedies.
“This is not just Shannon’s story—it’s the story of far too many women and families,” said one of the organizers of the vigil. “We need to speak up, support each other, and never ignore the signs.”
Advocacy groups across the state are using Shannon’s story as a renewed call to action, urging state leaders to increase funding for domestic violence shelters, expand educational outreach, and ensure stronger protective measures for those at risk. Hotline resources and counseling services are being promoted widely in the wake of her death.
As the investigation into Shannon’s death continues, her family is asking for privacy while they grieve and work through the logistics of caring for the children. A GoFundMe page has been set up to assist with legal and care-related expenses, and the family has expressed immense gratitude for the outpouring of support.
Shannon Lonergan’s death is not just a tragedy; it is a call to every community to do more—to listen, to act, and to protect. While she can no longer speak for herself, those who loved her are determined to ensure her story is heard, her legacy honored, and her children surrounded by love, support, and hope.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit for confidential support.