In Loving Memory of Shane Jared Long
Shane Jared Long, 36, of Paramus, tragically passed away on March 28, 2025, entering the loving arms of his grandparents, Vincent and Shirley Petrik, and Frank and Angelina “Lil” Long. Born on October 10, 1988, in Teaneck, New Jersey, Shane was a beloved son, brother, uncle, friend, and an inspiring figure in his community. His loss is deeply felt by all who knew him.
Shane is survived by his devoted parents, Anthony and Cheryl Long, as well as his two older brothers, Kyle Long and Justin Anthony Long, and their partners, Cyndy Webster Long and Jonathan Lee Jr. His family was the core of his life, providing him with unconditional love and support as he pursued his passions and professional endeavors.
A lifelong New Jersey resident, Shane grew up in Paramus and graduated from Montclair State University. He built an impressive career in Human Resources, working for several distinguished companies, including KIND Bars, and most recently, at Salesforce, where he served as the “Global Total Rewards & People Operations Leader.” Shane was a dedicated professional, admired for his strong work ethic, leadership skills, and warm personality. He cultivated lasting friendships with colleagues throughout his career, leaving an indelible mark on everyone he worked with.
However, Shane’s true passion lay in theatre. From a young age, he demonstrated immense talent and a deep love for the performing arts. He began his journey in middle school, starring as Joseph in Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat and Harold Hill in The Music Man at West Brook Middle School in Paramus. His love for theatre continued in high school, where he honed his skills through school productions and youth programs such as the Garage Theatre Group and the John Harms Performing Arts Center (now BergenPAC).
Shane’s versatility as a performer was undeniable. From embodying the youthful Arpad in She Loves Me, to the dashing Sir Harry in Once Upon a Mattress, and the comedic brilliance of Snoopy in You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown, he captivated audiences with his charm, stage presence, and remarkable talent.
As an adult, Shane became a treasured figure in the New Jersey community theatre scene. Known for his soaring tenor voice, impeccable comedic timing, and magnetic charisma, he graced the stages of venues like Cranford Dramatic Club, Plays in the Park in Edison, and Light Opera of New Jersey. He fulfilled lifelong dreams playing iconic roles such as Gaston in Beauty and the Beast, Jack Kelly in Newsies, and his critically lauded portrayal of Burrs in Andrew Lippa’s The Wild Party.
Beyond his love for community theatre, Shane also worked professionally as a singer and actor. He showcased his talents at Woodloch Resort in the Poconos and even performed in New York City as Andrew in My Big Gay Italian Wedding. His performances were met with admiration and applause, cementing his place as a star in the world of performing arts.
Despite his busy schedule, Shane always made time to enjoy life to the fullest. He cherished his family and friends, treating them with immense generosity, kindness, and unwavering love. His friendships were not just relationships; they were bonds that he nurtured with fierce loyalty and devotion. Among his greatest joys was being an uncle to his niece and nephew, a role he embraced wholeheartedly, earning him the affectionate title of “Funcle.”
Shane lived his life like a bolt of lightning—fast, vibrant, and filled with passion. His energy was contagious, his spirit unforgettable, and his presence irreplaceable. Though his time on this earth was far too short, his impact will be everlasting.
Shane will be missed with the deepest of love, but the heavens have gained another brilliant star. We love you, Shane—now and forever.