In Loving Memory of Sergeant Alex Cairne
A Dedicated Officer, Compassionate Friend, and True Gentleman
It is with the heaviest of hearts that we share the heartbreaking news of the passing of Sergeant Alex Cairne, following an official statement released yesterday by Wiltshire Police and associated local services. The news has sent waves of shock and sorrow through our community, our organisation, and among all who had the honour of knowing him.
Alex was not only a dedicated and highly respected serving officer, but also a cherished friend, colleague, mentor, and a man whose compassion knew no bounds. A longstanding and loyal associate of the PALS organisation, a founding member of PALS FC South, and a pillar of strength to so many, his absence leaves a void that words alone cannot fill.
A Man of Unwavering Service
Throughout his career, Alex served with unwavering dedication, humility, and pride. His work as a sergeant in Wiltshire Police was marked not only by professional excellence, but by the profound empathy and humanity he brought to the role. He was the kind of officer who embodied the very best of policing — someone who didn’t just enforce the law, but truly cared for the people and communities he served.
His colleagues describe him as a steady presence in times of crisis, a trusted leader, and a man who inspired through action. Whether it was guiding younger officers, supporting those in need, or going above and beyond without seeking credit, Alex was someone you could count on — not just as a colleague, but as a friend and confidant.
A Devoted Family Man and Friend
Outside the badge, Alex was a loving husband to Lucy and a proud, devoted father. His family was his world, and he often spoke with deep love and pride about his children. His warmth and humour extended to all who knew him — always ready with a laugh, a helping hand, or simply a listening ear.
Within the PALS community, he was more than just a member — he was a cornerstone. From his early involvement to his instrumental role in forming PALS FC South, Alex gave his all, both on and off the pitch. He brought people together, championed mental health support and peer advocacy, and created safe spaces where camaraderie and healing could grow.
To many, he was a lifeline — a gentleman in every sense of the word, a voice of reason, and a heart full of kindness.
A Community in Mourning
As we struggle to come to terms with this loss, we acknowledge the deep grief being felt not only within the PALS and policing communities, but by Alex’s family, close friends, and every life he touched.
One colleague shared,
“Words at this point elude myself at a time of such pain and despair. A deep loss to many people, a kind, caring soul who went above and beyond in the mission to help others. A devastating loss that has left a deep void… words shall come, but at this point it is only appropriate to offer our deepest condolences to Lucy, the kids, the wider family, and everyone affected by this situation…”
These words speak for us all. We have truly lost one of our own.
Honouring His Legacy
In the coming days and weeks, we will find ways to honour Alex’s life and legacy — not only in memory, but in action. We will continue his work, support one another, and ensure his spirit lives on in everything we do.
His life was one of courage, care, and community, and though he may no longer walk beside us, the impact he made will echo through all the lives he touched.
Rest in peace, Sergeant Alex Cairne.
Your dedication, compassion, and friendship will never be forgotten. You will always be part of our story, our service, and our hearts.