In Loving Memory of Graeme Dunlap
March 3, 1983 – May 21, 2025
PITTSBURGH, PA — With profound sorrow and heavy hearts, we announce the untimely passing of Graeme Dunlap, a cherished son, brother, friend, and respected member of the Pittsburgh community. Graeme passed away peacefully in his sleep on May 21, 2025, at the age of 42. His sudden departure has left a deep void in the lives of those who knew and loved him, both in his hometown of Pittsburgh and across the country.
Graeme’s life was one of purpose, kindness, and quiet impact. He was a man of character, integrity, and warmth—traits that left a lasting impression on everyone he encountered. Though his passing was unexpected, the legacy of love, laughter, and compassion he leaves behind will endure in the hearts and memories of all who had the privilege of knowing him.
A Life of Meaning
Graeme was born and raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, where he developed a deep love for the city, its people, and its rich traditions. A proud son of the Steel City, he carried Pittsburgh in his heart wherever he went. He was a graduate of Taylor Allderdice High School, where his intelligence, wit, and easygoing nature made him well-liked by peers and teachers alike.
He went on to earn a degree in Communications from the University of Pittsburgh, where he thrived both academically and socially. He was a natural conversationalist and storyteller—traits that served him well throughout his life, whether in a professional setting or around a backyard firepit surrounded by friends.
Graeme’s professional career took him across state lines, where he held leadership roles in nonprofit development and communications, working tirelessly to give a voice to those in need. No matter the job title, his mission remained clear: to make a difference, however big or small, in the lives of others.
A Gentle Soul with a Fierce Loyalty
Graeme was known not only for his intelligence and work ethic, but also for his genuine kindness and steadfast loyalty. He was the kind of person who showed up—whether it was to celebrate a friend’s success or to offer comfort during hardship. He was someone you could count on, and someone whose presence brought a sense of calm and belonging.
He had a special bond with his family, who were the center of his world. A devoted son and brother, Graeme never missed a family dinner, a holiday gathering, or a chance to offer his support. To his friends, he was a confidant, a source of humor, and a rock of stability.
Those who knew Graeme often speak of his love for music, film, and Pittsburgh sports. He could talk for hours about his favorite bands or quote classic movies with uncanny precision. Sundays in the fall were sacred—he never missed a Steelers game and had an encyclopedic knowledge of every roster since the early 1990s.
A Community in Mourning
Graeme’s passing has left an indelible mark on the Pittsburgh community. Friends, neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances have come forward to share their grief and their memories, painting a picture of a man who lived with integrity and heart. Social media has been flooded with tributes that speak to his humor, empathy, and ability to connect with people from all walks of life.
As his loved ones mourn, there is also a shared sense of gratitude for having known him. “Graeme had a way of making you feel like the most important person in the room,” one friend wrote. “He never asked for attention, but he earned everyone’s respect.”
Remembering Graeme
Graeme’s family is planning a celebration of life to be held in the coming week in Pittsburgh. The gathering will be open to all who knew him and wish to honor his memory. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Greater Pittsburgh Community Food Bank, a cause close to Graeme’s heart, or to a local nonprofit supporting mental health awareness.
While the pain of his loss is immeasurable, so too is the love he leaves behind. Graeme’s story may have ended far too soon, but his influence will ripple through the lives of those he touched for years to come.
Rest in peace, Graeme Dunlap.
You are deeply loved. You are profoundly missed.
And you will never be forgotten.