Foster City Police Department Mourns the Tragic Loss of Veteran Sergeant to Suicide
FOSTER CITY, CA — A profound sense of sorrow hangs over the Foster City community following the sudden and heartbreaking loss of a beloved member of the Foster City Police Department. On Monday morning, a veteran police sergeant, whose name has not yet been publicly released out of respect for the family, died by suicide, according to officials.
Authorities confirmed that the sergeant had been privately battling long-term mental health challenges, a struggle that few outside his inner circle fully understood. The news has devastated not only the department but also the wider community, where the sergeant was known for his leadership, mentorship, and deep commitment to public service.
In a statement released Monday evening, Foster City Police Chief Tracy Avelar expressed her heartbreak and asked the public for compassion and understanding during this incredibly difficult time.
“Today, we lost not just a colleague, but a member of our family,” Chief Avelar said. “He served this department and this community with integrity, courage, and compassion. Behind the uniform was a person carrying burdens many never saw. Our thoughts are with his family, his friends, and his fellow officers as we navigate this immeasurable loss.”
The sergeant had served with the Foster City Police Department for more than 15 years, rising through the ranks thanks to his dedication and a quiet but impactful leadership style. Colleagues describe him as thoughtful, steady, and deeply committed to the people he served and worked alongside.
“He was someone you could always count on — calm in a crisis, kind to everyone, and a real mentor to the younger officers,” said one fellow officer, who asked to remain anonymous. “This is a loss that’s hard to even begin to process.”
The tragedy has sparked renewed conversations about mental health within law enforcement, a profession where exposure to trauma, long hours, and intense public scrutiny are all part of the job. Despite increasing awareness, stigma still surrounds mental health struggles among first responders — especially for those in leadership positions.
In response to the tragedy, Foster City officials have mobilized support services for the department’s staff, including grief counselors, peer support teams, and chaplains. Local mental health organizations have also stepped in to offer services to officers and their families.
The City of Foster City issued a statement expressing solidarity with the Police Department and calling on the community to rally around those affected.
“This is a painful reminder of the silent battles that so many face,” the statement read. “Let us come together not only in grief but in a renewed commitment to prioritize mental wellness for our public servants and for all members of our community.”
Community members have begun placing flowers and notes of condolence at the steps of the Foster City Police Department. A candlelight vigil is being planned by residents and local organizations to honor the sergeant’s life and to raise awareness about mental health and suicide prevention.
The sergeant is survived by a loving family, friends, and a law enforcement community now grappling with the weight of his absence. Plans for a memorial service are expected to be announced in the coming days.
This tragedy serves as a sobering reminder that even those who appear strongest may be fighting unseen battles. Mental health professionals urge anyone struggling with depression, trauma, or suicidal thoughts to reach out for help.
If you or someone you know is in crisis, please contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988, or visit for support. Confidential help is available 24/7.